Going on vacations with kids naturally puts one in a different headspace. Parental instincts soar, making parents feel more protective and focused on the child’s well-being, ensuring the vacation is a positive, fun, and educational experience for them. More often than not, the parents’ own desires and experiences take a back seat for obvious reasons. Travelling with kids offers its own bonuses and unique experiences, but these are best enjoyed once they’ve reached the ideal age of 5 years and above. Before that, the added responsibilities can take the element of relaxation or fun out of any holiday if you’re not fully prepared.

This is why the pre-parenthood phase is the perfect time for couples to travel extensively and embark on challenging trips that might become limiting once kids enter the picture. Physically demanding experiences like trekking, hiking, wildlife safaris, and exploring sprawling cities don’t exactly align with the realities of travelling with young children. Here are our top five incredible destinations you must visit to strengthen your bond before starting a family.

PERU

Trekking the Inca Trail to Machu Picchu is a challenging yet rewarding endeavour, best tackled when you can focus on the physical demands and indulge in historical significance without worrying about the little ones' stamina, snacks or nap times. Peru's high altitude can also be a concern for young children. This might also be your only chance to embark on a jungle adventure in the Amazon rainforest, hike through its lush trails, spot exotic wildlife, and cruise along the Amazon River before the kids are young enough to come along. Don’t forget to visit the floating islands of Lake Titicaca, the highest navigable lake in the world.

Peru is best experienced by spending romantic evenings under the stars at stunning remote lodges, savouring leisurely candlelit dining, and feeling the sheer joy of this shared accomplishment of reaching the Lost City of the Incas.

SOUTH AFRICAN SAFARIS

Safaris in Southern Africa is an extremely exhilarating experience for adults, but it could be a bit challenging with the kids. The prevalence of malaria and other diseases poses a significant health risk for young children, especially with limited medical facilities in remote areas. Wildlife Safaris often involve early mornings, long days in open vehicles, and the potential for close encounters with wild animals – again an enriching experience for adults, but potentially overwhelming for young children.

Take your sweet time to luxuriate in private safari lodges, and indulge in wild, once-in-a-lifetime encounters with the big 5 in their natural habitat and other unique encounters.

INDONESIA

Indonesia's diverse islands offer a mix of adventure and relaxation, from hiking active volcanoes to diving with manta rays. These activities are best enjoyed while you can fully immerse yourselves in the experience without the added responsibility of child care, child gear and staying on top of all safety measures.

Explore hidden coves and spend hours getting tanned on secluded beaches, sampling exotic flavours at local markets and luxuriating in private villas overlooking the turquoise waters. Swim with the horses and explore the unique Sumbanese culture in one of the most iconic destinations, NIHI Sumba.

JAPAN

Navigating Japan's bustling cities and intricate transportation systems can be an adventure in itself. Coupled with the nuances of understanding and respecting its unique culture, a trip to Japan is best experienced with the freedom to explore. This means wandering through ancient temples at your own pace, indulging in late-night ramen excursions, and embracing the spontaneity that travel brings—all without the constraints of a family itinerary.

Take this time without the kids to Indulge adult-oriented activities like nonsense and tea ceremonies, stay in traditional ryokan stays, discover hidden sake bars, and explore the vibrant nightlife. Check out our guide to Tokyo before planning your trip to Japan.

ICELAND

Iceland's rugged landscapes and dramatic weather make it an ideal destination for adventurous couples who crave hiking glaciers, exploring ice caves and hidden waterfalls, and soaking in geothermal hot springs—activities that may not be suitable for young children. The long drives between attractions, often on winding roads with limited facilities, can be taxing for young children. Experiencing the ethereal beauty of the midnight sun and the magical Northern Lights often involves late nights, unfettered by children's routines.

Rent a car and embark on a scenic road trip to remote natural wonders such as the Golden Circle and Ring Road, exploring charming villages, volcanic landscapes, and black sand beaches. An adrenaline-pumping snorkel in the Silfra Fissure, combined with snowmobiling through Iceland's snow-covered terrains, offers a once-in-a-lifetime adventure that will be truly unforgettable as a couple.

Which destination are you itching to explore before starting your family? Tell us in the comments below, and contact us to get a head start on planning your perfect pre-parenthood holiday.